Taming Your Stress

 

Stress is a silent killer yet we find that it exists in our everyday lives. It’s unavoidable. Let’s face it we worry over a variety of issues. It has been reported through many sources that some stress is healthy, normal, and without it life would be unadventurous. There are different types of stress most common are 1) routine, 2) sudden change of any type, and   3) trauma, all of which causes the body to respond differently.

We anguish over the obvious occurrences that make most people anxious, i.e., financials, relationships, work, children, friends and family. Matters that occur in our lives that cause us to fear, which can turn to anger, are often associated with stress. As we already know, it can have long term effects if it’s allowed to burst forward without proper attention.

Over time if the body does not cope and return back to normalcy from routine stress (work, family, daily responsibilities) it can lead to serious health problems, e.g., heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, depression, anxiety disorder, and other illnesses.

Ironically, stress doesn’t just attach itself to displeasing circumstances; it lends itself to positive episodes and events in our lives as well. Change is all around us and thus any change in a routine, favorable or atrocious, needs proper management. Some of the most festive and joyous occasions in the world can cause insurmountable amounts of stress, e.g., weddings, childbirth, moving, a promotion, reunions, vacations.

Notwithstanding the reason behind your stress, knowing your personal boundaries is essential when establishing ways to mitigate the effects that lead to declining health.

stress-managementCreate an Action Plan:

Of course you can always see a mental health professional to assist with treating your stress symptoms but the most common ways that most people deal with stress include self-help methods, self-management, and medication.

As you begin to think about what causes you to stress, consider the following suggestions to aid in creating a plan to regulate it.

  1. Many find exercise as a great way to relieve stress, so exercising at home, if you have the discipline to work out on your own or joining a local gym is a great way to get started. Exercising can be as simple as walking up and down a stairwell or taking a neighborhood walk. Just get started doing something.
  2. Water works wonders so soak in a soothing bath, a long shower and sing if you want, or choose an alternative water activity that can help with relaxation.
  3. Sharing duties and responsibilities at home and at work can help alleviate stress or significantly reduce it. Ask for assistance or delegate responsibilities to others. Do not be afraid to teach someone else what you know out of fear, this will create more time for you to work on other things or take a vacation if needed.
  4. Stop being a yes person; this can be a major stress inducer. This issue is prevalent for many people. One must learn not to inundate life with too much of others’ agendas. Not being able to say no can lead to an early unwanted retirement, if you get my drift.
  5. Cut back on caffeine and alcohol possible or eliminate altogether if necessary. Unfortunately, alcohol and drugs are not a solution to stress but many people resort to this to self-medicate their problems. There are a litany of ways to help reduce stress and one is to be open minded. If you cannot stop this habit then cut down gradually until you can.
  6. Revamp your diet to one that is healthy, nutritional and rich in protein and fiber.
  7. Controlled breathing techniques, meditation, massage, or yoga has been known to greatly help revert to normalcy from high stress situations.
  8. Regardless to the amount available, set time aside for yourself with no interruptions in which you are the only one that matters. This must be a priority. Find something to do that you like that relaxes you and do it as often as your lifestyle will allow. Use this time wisely. Dance a little, read some, listen to music, take walks, shop a lot (kidding).
  9. Talk to those close to you whom you trust and share what is on your mind;
  10. If self-management does not work then seek a mental health professional because high levels of stress without relief over prolonged periods can create mental and physical illnesses.

 

Lastly, I have seen many cases in which untreated stress has caused others’ relationships, friendships, etc. to wither, because often the behavior that stress can breed victimizes innocent bystanders. Leaning too much on friends, taking them away from their responsibilities, can also invoke problems for their relationships and others not within the scope of your worries. Be careful going to lay counselors who are not formally trained, if your own action plan does not yield the results that you desire, reach out to a trained professional for proper guidance. Acknowledging when one is overwhelmed and needs a life break are the most important steps to finding reasons and techniques to ending prolonged stress.

5 thoughts on “Taming Your Stress

  1. C says:

    Very insightful. Key take-aways is to make and demand time for yourself, and do what makes you happy. As a result one may lose some people along the way, the real ones in your corner will still be standing.

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  2. Anita says:

    Greetings Dr. Chris Michelle,

    I know a great deal about stress, good and bad. You provide an excellent explanation regarding stress and alternatives for relieving the symptoms. I appreciate the information.

    Thankfully,

    AMWhite, BS, MSA

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  3. mzdivate says:

    Very interesting and so true! I live by the philosophy that everything in life is about balance. You should work hard and play hard. Meaning get your work done and find time to have some fun. Too much of anything is a total disaster. Live….

    Liked by 1 person

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